Kay Dibben The Courier-Mail November 29, 2014 12:00AM*

Okay. So, it is possible to get a fair-ish outcome in the Family Court. But. It will be the fight of your life. As one member put it,

Expect her to lie. Expect them to believe her. Expect no fairness. Expect to need mountains of evidence to prove your case. Their goal is to "bleed you dry" and beat you into submission. You'll never see the last of their dirty tricks. It behoves you therefore to be very prepared very early.

Sun Tzu is quoted as saying: "Know thyself, know thy enemy." Going into your fights knowing what you're up against should serve to prepare you not deter you. And your enemy is not just your ex. We now have a massive problem in all of western society in regards to men and the value we place on fatherhood. It is painfully clear to those fighting the courts and those of us helping, that fatherhood is entirely disposable. The courts are not fair to fathers. The courts are not reasonable to fathers. And as much as they pay lip service to it, the courts do not have "children's best interests" in mind.

So you keep fighting and... we will help!

and here's a little bit about me.

I have led an eclectic life doing everything from bottling Coca Cola as a factory hand to negotiating million-dollar investment contracts in the futures markets. I was married, but not divorced. She died of cancer at a very young (for me) age. Therefore I have no particular axe to grind with the Family Court.

So how did I become involved and what makes me an 'expert' in this?

I had been working for an international human rights organisation for 7 years dealing with the law as a human rights advocate or McKenzie Friend mostly in Australia. I have made numerous presentations to Parliamentary Committees as well as written presentations to the Parliaments of New South Wales, and Commonwealth of Australia.

I started helping people caught up in the mental health system to get a fair deal and where necessary proper medical treatment instead of debilitating psychiatric treatments. While still working with this human rights organisation, I got calls from dads who were being screwed in the family courts by these same reports and testimony. Usually they had no idea about how to handle these psychiatric reports and testimony and would lose custody or access to their own kids because some psychiatrist, psychologist or social worker said so. By the time I got told about it, it was usually too late to get things changed. Once the report is written and accepted as evidence, it is very difficult to get it unwritten or rewritten. These guys needed to know what to do BEFORE they agreed to a family report or an 'expert report'. So where I could, I advised guys to do what you have in the training section of the club. I wrote a how-to book called,

Here is YOUR special invitation to join us and other dads who have ‘figured out’ as one member put it, “I really can do something about my divorce to get the best outcome possible for my kids and me.”

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Solicitors charge an average of $220.00 per hour to give legal advice but that advice is tempered by the fact that their first duty is to the Court, not you.

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Okay, that's a bit sales-y. But the truth is, you join, you get a huge leg up on your case. You get what works. You get the intel on who you're up against. You get the collaboration of mentors and members. And you get a plan.

The fact is if you are not following your own plan, you are most assuredly following someone else's.

Either squander tens of thousands of dollars handing control over to your lawyers, experience the sheer frustration of many false avenues and waste hundreds of hours doing your own due diligence, when representing yourself…

Simply apply to become a privileged Member of The McKenzie Friends Club, where I’ve already done all that costly, time-consuming, energy-sapping research for you. When you join us today as a Member of the club, you’ll enjoy instant access to the closely guarded secrets I’ve listed above that would cost you thousands of dollars, and many hours of your precious time to ferret out for yourself, all for a deeply discounted subscription price.

You'll notice I didn't do a big build-up to justify the price. That's because, I'm sure you'll agree that the cost of Membership is a drop in the ocean compared with the massive cost and lead time of doing it yourself.

I’m sure you’re shrewd enough to see that The McKenzie Friends Club is the ideal solution to help you safely, securely and legally become the best advocate for your kids and their future.

That said, I’m really looking forward to welcoming you as our newest valued Member and sharing with you the amazing treasure trove of knowledge awaiting you inside.

Regards,

John McGuinness McKenzie Friend and Founder, McKenzie Friends Club

P.S. Why not start as you mean to go on, being the best advocate you can be for your kids and their future. What’s more, the sooner you’re accepted as a Member of the club, the sooner you’ll be ready to take control of your divorce and life.

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* Kay Dibben The Courier-Mail November 29, 2014 12:00AM http://www.couriermail.com.au/news/queensland/judge-takes-girl-away-from-selfish-mum-and-gives-her-to-dad-in-custody-battle/story-fnn8dlfs-1227138702109